On being "footprints" & leaving legacies.

A Worthwhile Meditation,
revised from a post by Margaret Feinberg
This meditation from Cardinal Newman.

“God has created me to do Him some definite service; He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another.

I have my mission --

I may never know it
in this life,

but I shall be told it in the next.
I am a link in a chain,
a bond of connection between persons.
He has not created me for nothing. I shall do good, I shall do His work.

Therefore I will trust Him. Whatever, wherever I am. I cannot be thrown away. If I am in sickness, my sickness may serve Him; in perplexity, my perplexity may serve Him; if I am in sorrow, my sorrow may serve Him. He does nothing in vain. He knows what He is about. He may take away my friends, He may throw me among strangers, He may make me feel desolate, make my spirits sink, hide my future from me -- still He knows what He is about.”

Amen. And amen.
Sometimes I don't feel like I have a worthwhile purpose. I think, "How could and why would God ever want to use me?"

But it's things like this that remind me that I am part of a bigger picture.
That I matter.

A lot of time we tend to forget that.

May I allow His glory to be evident in everything and may I take action in faith; it is through action that God uses me and changes me.

Oh, the mystery of the Triune God!

Personal Rhythms

I love Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton and reading about St. Benedict's Rule of Life.


Establishing my own personal rhythms...

Recognition of the fact that there are times of life when it can't all be done.
Spending some time with community, and yet...
Leaving Empty Spaces for personal alone time.
Getting the proper amount of sleep.
Be disciplined and organized.
Don't worry about doing a perfect job. You can't.
Do a "good enough" job. Which is hard to do when you want to be the best.

Intentional preparation


Someone blogged -"The key for me is "pace": do what you can with the time you've got and give God thanks. Get up tomorrow and go at it again."

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What Rhythms work well for you? How has God help you identify them?

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What is selfish behavior and what is healthy self-care?
How can people change the destructive patterns in their lives?

Teacher Gifts/Horror

I am tired of the mugs, candles, etc. Why not just cash? I have SO many notes. And homemade goods usually just get thrown out, as teachers assume the children and their germs have "helped out" with the baking. As for bookstores, not all teachers like to read. Even a GAS CARD would be better. Yes, it's the thought that counts, but when you have 23 "thoughts" every year for 25 years.....

I am not being selfish, I am being realistic. It gives me anxiety every year.

http://wheelsonthebus.wordpress.com/2008/11/28/step-away/

Blessings!

Step away
November 28, 2008 · 17 Comments

Today is Black Friday here in the U.S. Traditionally, this is the day that Americans, groggy from their obscene over-eating, head out to malls and Target and Costco where they indulge in obscene over-purchasing. The naysayers would have us believe that this year we are all too freaked out by the economy to actually do any holiday shopping, but somehow I suspect a few of you are about to fire up the old Pontiac and head over there, anyhow.

While you are at the mall, strolling past tween-targeted displays of skimpy clothing and kiosks filled with useless electronics, you will come upon a Yankee Candle. Actually, you will probably smell it first, that distinct mix of fake spice and wax. You will look down at your list of obligatory gifts, and you will see the names of several of your children’s teachers on it. You will think to yourself, “If I go in here, I can cross three gifts off the list all at once.”

As a former teacher, as a mother, as an environmentalist, I beg you: Please, do not give in to temptation. If you buy that teacher a scented candle, here is what will happen. The cellophane wrapper and ribbon will end up in a landfill. The candle will go onto a shelf or into a box with all the other scented candles the poor woman has received over the years. There, it will gather dust, forgotten except for once a year when the teacher opens the box to shove in the latest installment of holiday gifts. Decades from now, her heirs will find the stash as they clean out her house to put it on the market. And, unless someone has found a use for scented candles by that time, it too will end up in a landfill.

Step away from the Yankee Candle.

Your child’s teacher does not want another vanilla-pumpkin-spiced candle. She knows it, I know it, and, deep down, you know it, too. While we’re at it, let’s go over a few other things she does not want. She does not want a coffee mug. She does not want yet another $5 picture frame. She does not want a gift book of sweet platitudes to put in her bathroom. And, I am so sorry to inform you, she does not want homemade cookies, although in that last case she’ll appreciate the effort before throwing them away. Because, you see, you were not the only one with that idea, and if she eats all the fudge and cookies that parents prepare for her, she will not fit her teaching clothes anymore. On her salary, she really cannot afford to buy new ones.

This person (who I have gendered female for simplicity’s sake) spends all day trying to educate your precious offspring. Please, please, get her something useful. Get her a freakin’ gift card.

“But,” you protest, “that’s so impersonal.” To which I answer: who gives a shit? If it is the thought that counts, show the woman that you think enough of her to give her something to help make up for her pathetic salary.

And, please, spare me the argument that you don’t want to spend very much. I know times are hard, really I do. But, the first place to economize is not your kids’ teachers, nor, for that matter, is it your postman, your trash collector, your place of worship, or your favorite charity. The first place to cut is the gifts you give immediate family. I’m not suggesting you deny your children holiday gifts, but do they really need as many as you have on that list? Can they do without a fancy video game so you can instead show gratitude to those around you? And, if the budget is tight, can you and your spouse agree not to give one another gifts this year?

Of course, many people have already made these cuts, and I am certainly not suggesting you must spend a lot on teachers. For those who really cannot afford to spend anything, I promise the teacher will know that and be grateful for simply a kind word, but the rest of you can funnel the cost of baking ingredients into s small gift card that will not go bad in a few days. If all the parents in the class gave a very small contribution, you could probably get a pretty nice gift card, which I guarantee the teacher will appreciate more than twelve scented candles, eight batches of cookies, and a couple of coffee mugs.

If you don’t want to organize the class or perhaps all the parents in the group despise one another, consider a small gift card to a place where $5 can actually buy something: a coffee shop or a card store. Or, if you must buy a tangible gift, how about stationery? After all, she will need something on which she can compose thank you notes for all those scented candles.

Summer Reading

Thus far I have read the following books this summer:

Ya-Yas in Bloom by Rebecca Wells
&
A Red-bird Christmas by Fannie Flagg

& for school:
Vampires Don't Wear Polka Dots (The Adventures Of The Bailey School Kids)
Lost Treasure of the Emerald Eye (Geronimo Stilton)
Zack Files 01: My Great-grandpa's in the Litter Box (Zack Files)

Heartbreak & Lemonade

I started reading "The Shack" after my mentor recommended it. She warned me that she loved some parts of it, and simply disagreed with other points. Father God is an African-American woman, the Holy Spirit is an Asian young woman, and Jesus alledgedly a "not attractive" male, to the surprise of the narrator.

After Chuck Colson bashed it, I REALLY wanted to read it. I did, but the beginning was just too terribly heartbreaking/gruesome, and for now I have put it down. However, this morning on MOODY, they were discussing it, and mentioned that the program Haven Today, will be doing a three-day special on it. I plan on listening. 9pm CST. Apparently, some Christians are a little wary of his portrayal of the Trinity, meaning they believe it is not totally theologically correct. But the speaker on Moody, said yes some will find it controversial, but it is not outside of orthodoxy. You have to keep in mind that the author is not a theologian, and never intended it to be published. He just wrote it for his immediate family, but it grew.... and has been on the Amazon & New York Times best-seller lists ever since, read by believers and seekers alike.

I started reading "The Pact" by Jodi Picoult, as it was highly recommended by my collegues at work. I read her book "My Sister's Keeper", and it was amazing. Well, "The Pact" was just too depressing and again heartbreaking.

My Aunt J just gave me a copy of the book "Mistaken Identity" to borrow. It's about the tragedy that took place at Taylor University, where they misidentified the bodies, and had a funeral for the wrong girl. Maybe I will read that next.

PS: Have you tried the frozen lemonade at Panera Bread? It is amazing, and only 120 calories.

Beam me up.

I spent $65 on gas today. And it was at a cheap gas station... in a cheaper county....